Emmydreamer - Femme trans Escort in Victoria, British Columbia

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How it works - little or no contact information aside from an OF link. Perhaps there is an email, or a WhatsApp. But no phone number that you can reverse look up to see that it’s a cell phone. They promise to book on their OF account. You send messages via OF, they schedule a meet and don't show, maybe even after a deposit. They offer to "reimburse" you with OF access. You want an ***, not porn!

Don't be a mark. Use ts4rent. Reverse look-up the number.

I'm thinking about touring to Vancouver in November or maybe December for 3 to 5 days. If you're interested and just haven't wanted to take the ferry, drop me a message. I'd definitely only do it if there's enough interest.

I'm an individualist. It's hard for me to wrap my head around the shame people experience. I rarely care what people think. When I tell someone I'm not interested, I get called grandma, fat, etc. If these people realized who I was, they would know things like that don't effect me. I know my curves are glorious. I know I'm a thick woman.

There's no bigger turn off to me than someone that rejects themselves to avoid stigma, shame, social shunning. Being trans, for a good chunk of your life, you're exposed to constant hate. You won't survive if you care, or care too much.

When did a lot of men become so obsessed with what other people think?

I am often reached out to meet someone, and they don't follow through. I realize some people just get off on wasting a girl's time, but I feel like some just can't push through the social stigma. There's only shame in seeing a girl with a surprise if you let their be shame. If men decided to not accept the shame anymore, there would be no shame.

I like men with a spine, men who know what they want and go for it. Men who reject social pressures and manifest their chosen life. That's what a real man does. A real man doesn't care what his bros think about his choices. They are his.

Please don't reach out to me if you're a shell of a man who is worried about judgment. Life is too short.

There's no shame in paying for companionship.

Lots of people are hung up on the idea of sin, or deviance. There is no deviance or sin, there is no god, except an ever decreasing envelope of what we don't understand. Life is incredibly short, crack open a physics textbook, pour a cocktail and have fun.

There is no shame. Shame is just social conditioning - do you really care what people think that don't have to die when you have to die? Live your life love, life hurts, it's short, and then it's over. You might as well make the most of it.

Life is short and fragile - one day you might be in love and dancing - tomorrow you could be disabled, not able to dance, and your love might be gone.